Safety and support
If you are in danger right now, call 911 (or your local emergency number).
Domestic violence (US)
National Domestic Violence Hotline: call 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. Free, confidential, 24/7.
Thoughts of suicide or self-harm (US)
Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), 24/7.
Using MessageMediator safely
- Quick exit: in Settings, turn on Safety mode. A "Quick exit" button stays on screen (or press Esc three times): it leaves this site immediately, clears what MessageMediator keeps in this browser, and opens a neutral page.
- Discreet mode: emails just say "You have a new notification", the app shows as "Notes", and nothing revealing appears in notifications.
- No trace on this device: "Sign out and clear this device" removes MessageMediator's saved data from the browser. Use a private window on shared devices.
- If you think someone can read your email, texts or devices, use a device and account they cannot access, and talk to an advocate about a safety plan.
- You never have to reconcile or keep talking. Block, report and "stop all messages" work in one tap, and MessageMediator keeps your record for you.
- Keep a factual record: the PDF export keeps exact words, dates and delivery status. It is not legal advice; an advocate or attorney can help with protection orders.